Can This Be Love? .... Maybe.

Monday, October 17, 2005

Quote Of the Day

"Respect Each Other's comfort Zone"

okie, everyone of us has comfort zone... what happened when ppl invade into ur comfort zone??? uncomfortable, gettin irritated, blah blah blah....

how do we noe if we hav invaded into ppl's comfort zone??? ... well the fastest way is to see the non verbal signs or the body language....

but i realise that not everyone is able to detect that... unfortunately....

what happen if it is ur own family or frenz whu invaded? the strain in the rs, isnt it just so hard to say it out??? .... u try to get the point across and they still dun get it???,... that can be super vexin compared to a stranger whu does that...

u will hav restraint, doubts, all becoz the other party is someone whu is closer to u.... u dun wanna hurt them, yet u are feelin super uncomfortable.....

well.... for me personally, i choose to run away, whereby i dun do a direct headon with the situation... a coward way, yet so far it did help a lot.... where i dun hav to face with those ugly scenes.... those whu noe me well enuf, hav seen that i showed my displeasure quite distinctively... so for those whu dun see it, well, too bad, it is not worth the frenzship.... say that i am selfish... i dun care, coz i treasure my comfort zone as how a Lion will.... i dun see the point of buildin a frenzship with someone whereby i hav to spell out every single tings.... especially with me not realli into expressin myself that well....

of coz i cant say i am an expert in makin sure i dun invade into other's comfort zone, but i can say i can sense when to withdraw at the limit... i am still learnin to Observe ... observation skills is the most impt tool in life...

wat do u reckon???

Considered for a second about our love at {10/17/2005 12:34:00 AM}
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