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Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Conventional or unconventional ....

times passes with us doing trial and errors in our life. shaping and creating our self. in some situations, the conventional way a.k.a "everyone-does-it-way" works the best, as it had been tried by several ppl arnd u, and it works.

however, if we tink closely, the unconventional way a.k.a "u-r-an-idiot/crazy/fucker-way" actually suit most of our situation.

try telling someone to use a clinically-tested way in the moment of anger, u will be lucky to survive without being killed. it is times like this where we hav to start inventing/evolving/adapting ways to suit that person.

one of my fav topics is anger mgt. hmmm, cant say i am an expert, but i had tried and failed lotsa times. better kept under control now, though still coming out at times. hmmm. encountered with cases of higher level den me. i got stuck, without knowin the head or tail, just a brief background. whats the ways to try to diffuse it?

diffuse it???? sound like i am making it sound serious, which maybe its not. tickin time bomb is true, and no matter what, there will be a receiving end is a hard fact. so, is it gonna be an impact of huge magnitude or just feather touch?

lets list down some of the conventional ways,
1) breathe - which i personally tink, is onli temporary solution.
2) beat the crap out of a non-living object - which is kinda violent
3) beat the crap out of a living object - u gonna get jailed for this
4) scream the top of ur lungs - u gonna get complained for noise pollution and ur throat gonna be so sore.
5) suppressing it - well, who wants mashed internal organs?

we need to improvise this, to cater to different needs.

how abt choose option 2 combined with option 1 on a symphonic rhythm, remember to wear protective hand gear.

or maybe choose option 4 with an added complement, the pillow. also, keep a box of lozenges in handy for the after effect.

NV ever even tink of option 3 and 5, coz it onli creates more anger, which is not helping.

of coz, end of the day, with my special little bits of HUMOR medicine, shld be able to get the anger out in a much "civilised" ways.

thats all for today, thank you for attending the "Crash Course for Anger Mgt 0.01"


Considered for a second about our love at {4/16/2008 10:50:00 PM}
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